“Real Men Don’t Ask For Nu’des, Little Boys Do” – RMD Speaks Out

Popular Nollywood actor Richard Mofe-Damijo, took to his IG page today to address increasing rate of men who ask for nu’des and also those who leak them…
rmd2He wrote:

Dear Son,

I’m writing to you today because there is no day “internationally” set aside for the “boy child”, so, tired of looking on in horror as you constantly shock and embarrass me, this is from daddy to you. I’m shocked at how many of you carry yourselves here on social media. I am shocked at the things you L O L at. I am worried at the way you speak to and about women. I am frightened at the kinds of things that inspire and motivate you.

I am concerned that the women who get your attention are not the virtuous, brilliant types but the frivolous party, skimpily clad ones. I am disappointed to see that the pictures you fall over yourselves double tapping are not the inspirational quotes or of clean, beautiful modest women but of women with their breasts, thighs and bottoms spilling over.

I cringe at how many of you blatantly use swear and curse words at women like it makes you cool.
I am distraught to see that many of you insinuate that a man who loves and stays with one woman is a wimp, that a man who publicly displays and speaks about his love for his woman is a “jew man”, that a man who is more interested in deeply spiritual and intellectual pursuits should be shamed… I am worried son, deeply worried.

My dear son, being uncouth, indecent, unintelligent is NOT cool and contrary to what you think, the man who stays on social media looking for naked ladies to validate, smart people to shame, brilliant people to tear down, celebrities to attack are NOT men but little boys battling low self esteem issues.

A real man loves God and is not ashamed to show it. He loves and respects women. He does not ask for nudes and if any misguided woman sends him her nudes respectfully deletes it and not use it as a blackmailing tool. A real man reads, yes, he reads a lot. He picks his mentors wisely, thinks before he speaks and reads his comments over and over before he hits send.

Dear son, do not let the “anonymity” of social media make you a fool rather use it to shine and be kind, reasonable and sensible at all times because that is the man I desire to see you be.


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  • WillieBravo

    True talk.

  • chika bibian

    Beautiful piece….God bless you oga

  • Mezzy Gilbert

    True word

  • Mezzy Gilbert

    My crush

  • emekachilaka

    true talk

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  • Cornel Nwankwo

    Okay oooooooooooooooooooooo
    We have heard you, you really made some good points

  • vivian Ify

    I concur….preach broda

  • kayode akinsanya

    Thanks brother, ladies that are sending them nudes photo are not well.

  • Olovo Obinna

    Agree with him 101%….its even annoying n shameful to request for such photos…..men this man no the carry last oh…see him swag inside clean apartment

    • kayode akinsanya

      The man is enjoying his life

      • Olovo Obinna

        I see that oh