Guys Only! 5 Tips To Overcome Shyness Around Ladies

It might appear that some guys just find it naturally, effortlessly easy to approach any woman of their choice.

For you, on the other hand, you get scared to approach any woman you find attractive, and no matter how easy it appears to just walk up to her, strike up a conversation and set the ball rolling, you just never seem to know how to go about it.

Well, the five things listed below are just exactly the things you need to break free from shyness and get yourself the girl.

1. Focus on yourself and build confidence first

These things occur from inside out. When you build on your confidence and become surer of yourself and who you are and what you are capable of, you are about 55% above shyness and fear of approaching women.

2. Women think differently:

Have you not seen instances where a woman ends up with a guy who you, as a guy, thought she couldn’t ever end up with?

No matter how gorgeous and out-of-this-world she might look, she remains a woman, a human being like you.

Being scared that she won’t be interested in you, and growing timid for this reason is a very wrong move.

You never can tell what she wants, or what she finds attractive. Who says you are not the ideal image of what she wants?

3. Develop a rapport with women you are not attracted to:

Try to become friends with as many women as possible. By doing this, you could learn how to relate with women without the pressure of trying to impress or appear cool.

When you successfully reach this level, you can be assured that somehow, you can hold a conversation with women without stress.
This will greatly simplify your task of talking to women in future situations.

4. Become boyfriend material

Now consider this: why are you shy? What exactly is the reason behind your fear and trepidation when it comes to approaching women?

Could it be because you know that you are far from what that woman would want? Then work on yourself and become what a woman wants.

When you work on several aspects of yourself and get close to an image of what many women would want their ideal man to look like, a kind of boldness comes from this, and with boldness, your shyness melts away considerably.

5. Rejection is part of the game:

There are only two things that can happen when you ask a lady out. She either says yes or say no.
Ok. The manner of rejection could be embarrassing sometimes, but hey, it’s just that – rejection, and it’s totally acceptable.

When you get rejected, you move on and shoot your shot in another loop.

Winners do not quit, right? I know some ladies who are reading this post would be like… im-shy-at-first

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  • Mezzy Gilbert

    Ngwanu,it yaf set

  • chika bibian

    Very nice info for those that needs it

  • vivian Ify

    For the guys

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  • Cornel Nwankwo

    Admin at work today…………………
    Rejection is part of the game, not our portion though……….Lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

    • chika bibian

      Even if you don’t want it to be your portion is normal just have it at the back of your mind

  • kayode akinsanya

    To those that still need it, good for them.

  • Olovo Obinna

    Heheheheheehehe… am a very shy guy when it comes to asking a lady out….i still never get formula to solve this mathematics

    • Cornel Nwankwo

      At this your …… didnt say anything oooooooooooo

      • Olovo Obinna

        Lolzzzzzzz….am serious oh….maybe na my Holy upbringing cause the nsogbo

        • Cornel Nwankwo

          Thank God for ur life naaaaaa, at-least girls in your area are safe……………

          • Olovo Obinna

            Lolzzzzzz…….are u sure

          • Cornel Nwankwo

            Badt guy

        • Mezzy Gilbert

          Obinna holy what,re u nwokoro dt has not been touched

          • Olovo Obinna


      • chika bibian


    • Cornel Nwankwo

      Chat up admin for further tutorials on that or you can meet Manie Ajie for further studies

      • Olovo Obinna

        Lol…ok sir

      • Mezzy Gilbert

        Exactly what I had in mind,make emma tutor am

        • Cornel Nwankwo

          Fact Ma

    • Mezzy Gilbert

      Olovo u shy?

      • Olovo Obinna